Life lately? It’s been a lot. My best friend Taylor and I recently sat down and realized we needed to get it together. We’ve both been overwhelmed, tired, and just feeling a bit lost in the day-to-day chaos. So, we decided to do something about it – a 30-day challenge to focus on what Taylor calls “Holy Girl Habits.” And let me tell you, it’s already been a wake-up call.

When Good Things Become Idols

Here’s the thing: I’ve realized I have a major idolatry problem. Now, before you roll your eyes thinking, “Well, at least you’re not worshipping a golden calf,” let me explain. Idolatry isn’t just about bowing down to a statue. It’s when anything takes precedence over God. Your phone, your job, even your family can sneak into that spot where only God belongs. For me, it’s been my calling and my love for learning. I’m in school right now studying Bible exposition, and I love it. I geek out over theology and diving deep into scripture. But there’s a line, and I crossed it without even realizing.

I was spending more time learning about God than actually spending time with Him. My calling became more important than the One who called me. And that hit me hard.

Getting Real About Priorities

When we started this 30-day challenge, the goal was to get our lives back in alignment with God. That meant putting Him first every single day. No excuses, no “I’ll do it later.” Before I pick up my phone, before I check my messages, before I do literally anything else, I’m sitting down with my Bible. It’s not about spending hours (though some days I do); it’s about making sure God comes first.

And look, this isn’t me saying you have to follow my exact schedule. I’m a bit extra and wake up at 3:30 a.m. because I want that time before my son wakes up. But whatever your day looks like, find a way to put God in it first.

Being a Good Steward

Another thing I’ve been really convicted about is stewardship. This word has been coming up over and over in my life recently, and it’s clear God is trying to get my attention. I’ve been complaining about not having enough time, money, or energy, but if I’m being honest, I haven’t been managing any of those things well.

Part of this challenge has been about being a better steward of my health – eating better, staying hydrated, moving my body, and not just sitting at my desk all day. It’s not just about checking off another box; it’s about honoring God with every part of my life, even the parts I’d rather ignore.

When the Attacks Come, You’re on the Right Path

One thing that’s been painfully clear is that when you start stepping up your faith game, the enemy takes notice. I’ve felt more spiritually drained since starting this challenge, and it’s been frustrating. But here’s what I’ve learned: the enemy doesn’t bother with people who aren’t a threat. If you’re feeling the heat, it’s because you’re doing something right.

We all want the easy path, but the reality is, the closer you get to God, the more resistance you’ll face. Don’t let it make you quit. Lean in, armor up, and keep going. You’re not alone, and this struggle is a sign that you’re exactly where you need to be.

Moving Forward, One Day at a Time

This 30-day challenge has been a lot of things, frustrating, eye-opening, and really, really necessary. It’s shown me that I need to stop letting everything else take priority over God. It’s about making those small, consistent choices to put Him first, and to actually live like He’s the most important thing in my life.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or like you’ve let things get out of balance, I get it. It’s hard. But start small. Start somewhere. Re-prioritize, recalibrate, and put God back in His rightful place. You don’t have to have it all together; you just have to take that first step.

So here’s to getting our hearts right, focusing on what matters, and doing this life God’s way, even when it feels messy and imperfect. Because, honestly? That’s where the real transformation happens.

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